How to write a wedding speech with AI
Turn one real memory of the couple into a short toast that feels comfortable to say aloud.
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Shape a speech around a shared memory
Choose a story the couple will welcome
Choose a story the couple will welcome.
Example: Choose one real memory the couple will welcome. Note your relationship to the couple, their names, preferred tone, length and topics to avoid.
ChatGPT
Draft a personal toast
Help me draft a two-minute wedding toast. I am the [relationship] of [names]. Here is one real memory: [memory]. Tone: [warm/funny]. Topics to avoid: [topics]. Ask me for anything missing and do not invent stories or shared experiences.
Time the toast and simplify the ending
Time the toast and simplify the ending.
Example: Time a read-through of the toast; replace stiff words, cut the long setup and end by asking guests to raise a glass.
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Before you write a wedding speech
How long should the toast be?
Aim for a few comfortable minutes and ask the couple or host about the schedule.
Can I include an embarrassing story?
Ask whether the couple would enjoy hearing it in front of all guests; leave it out if unsure.
What if I cry or lose my place?
Print a large-type copy, mark a pause after the opening and keep the final toast easy to find.